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ASWS is a seat at an intimate dinner party filled with like-minded humans and laughter. Your soul is full. I'm the host, I'm sipping prosecco, vodka and elderflower, I'm wearing a white satin dress and mules as always. A Seat at the Table is playing in the background. Pour yourself a drink.

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Over 2 years blogging and I don't believe I have done the 'Get To Know Me Tag'. It's an unoriginal list of questions hanging around on the internet just waiting for the narcissists to answer about the...

I'm a black woman but that doesn't make me the the best friend, the funny friend, the funny fat friend or the friend who loves chicken. News flash, I don't even eat meat. Being funny just happens to b...

 If there is something I am not it's dainty. I am heavy footed, loud laughing, loud talking and rushing around 24/7 with a bag flung over my shoulder. Dainty to me is delicate and petite. I've al...

This blog has always been me chatting about stuff, stuff that means something to me like Conquering Self Acceptance, stuff that all women can relate to like Yes I'm A Girl And Yes I Have Periods and s...

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THE STORY

A Seat With Shay was born in February 2017, I was ready to combine my love for personal style, breaking barriers, sarcasm and life. So here I am 25, self employed and living life one Friday night at a time. This blog is for the woman who is, like myself 'a bit of everything'. It's 2019, there isn't one way to be a woman. I am organised, I am a mess, I am loud, I am shy, I am fashion and I also detest it. I crave late Friday nights in strange places, Sunday afternoons with familiar faces and everything in-between.